verb / adjective HSK 5
Traditional 疏遠
shū yuǎn
to drift apart · to become estranged · to alienate · distant (in relationship)

Meaning

疏远 describes the process of emotional or social distance growing between people who were once close. It can be used as a verb meaning to gradually distance oneself from someone, or as an adjective describing a relationship that has become cold or distant.

Usage

This word typically describes relationships between family members, friends, or colleagues that have cooled over time due to lack of communication, disagreement, or changed circumstances. It carries a somewhat formal tone and is commonly used in written Chinese and serious conversations about relationships. The verb form often appears with 和 (hé) or 与 (yǔ) to indicate who is being distanced from whom.

Examples

  1. 01
    自从那次争吵后,他们的关系就变得疏远了。
    cóng zhēng chǎo hòu, men de guān jiù biàn de shū yuǎn le.
    Ever since that argument, their relationship has become distant.
  2. 02
    工作太忙让我和家人渐渐疏远
    Gōng zuò tài máng ràng jiā rén jiàn jiàn shū yuǎn.
    Being too busy with work has caused me to gradually drift apart from my family.

Characters

Common collocations

  • 疏远关系
    shū yuǎn guān
    to distance a relationship
  • 和...疏远
    ... shū yuǎn
    to become distant from...
  • 感到疏远
    gǎn dào shū yuǎn
    to feel alienated
  • 关系疏远
    guān shū yuǎn
    relationship has become distant

Antonyms

Origin

The character 疏 originally meant to clear waterways or make things less dense, conveying the idea of creating space or distance. Combined with 远 (far/distant), the compound literally suggests 'making distant' or 'creating separation,' which evolved into its current meaning of emotional or social distancing.

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